Yeah, I know that situation well. My wife and I were just married this past summer. She moved to Canada, where she plays horn in Winnipeg, while I came back to finish my master's at USC. The thing that made it ok to deal with the distance was, as my wife put it, the fact that there was indeed a plan to end the distance. If you both have a definite plan of ending the time apart, then you can somehow manage to forge through it. Once you both arrive at that arrangement, then you can make peace with the distance. You can find a balance somewhere in there.
Best of luck to you both!
Steve Oberheu
Love & Tubas & Distance
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Steve Oberheu
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