watch out for scams
Posted: Fri Dec 22, 2023 12:42 pm
A cautionary tale.
I posted in the "Wanting to Buy/Seeking" section that I was looking for a case for my horn. After about a week or so, I got a private message from edsel585961 (a lurker who has since deleted the account) that he knew of someone--"AnorakHorn"--who had one that he wanted to get rid of. Using the email provided, I contacted this person, who went by Cleese Curtis. (Searching the Internet for that name, I could only find the co-stars of A Fish Called Wanda. Now I know who the real fish is.)
"Cleese" sent me a photo of the case. It looked good. I asked for a photo of the inside. That took a while, but he got one to me; it looked good, too. We agreed on the price, and I sent him the money via Venmo. It went to what looked like an antiques or craft store, "Lily's Luxuries."
He then contacted me to say that he went to the Post Office and learned that he'd underestimated the shipping. I said I'd split the difference and, stupidly, sent him more money, this time to an individual, "Erica Poe." I've not been able to contact him since.
Some other things to note. He said he was located in Tulsa. He used grammar and syntax that made him appear to be a simpleton. That was actually really clever. Big city folk like myself have a paternal reaction to that and will not be as demanding. E.g., I didn't require that I see a shipping invoice before making that last payment.
I'm not sure exactly what the lesson is, here. Be less trusting, I guess. Demand more verification.
I've had many--and many more valuable--transactions through this wonderful community. Now I'll think twice. What a shame.
I posted in the "Wanting to Buy/Seeking" section that I was looking for a case for my horn. After about a week or so, I got a private message from edsel585961 (a lurker who has since deleted the account) that he knew of someone--"AnorakHorn"--who had one that he wanted to get rid of. Using the email provided, I contacted this person, who went by Cleese Curtis. (Searching the Internet for that name, I could only find the co-stars of A Fish Called Wanda. Now I know who the real fish is.)
"Cleese" sent me a photo of the case. It looked good. I asked for a photo of the inside. That took a while, but he got one to me; it looked good, too. We agreed on the price, and I sent him the money via Venmo. It went to what looked like an antiques or craft store, "Lily's Luxuries."
He then contacted me to say that he went to the Post Office and learned that he'd underestimated the shipping. I said I'd split the difference and, stupidly, sent him more money, this time to an individual, "Erica Poe." I've not been able to contact him since.
Some other things to note. He said he was located in Tulsa. He used grammar and syntax that made him appear to be a simpleton. That was actually really clever. Big city folk like myself have a paternal reaction to that and will not be as demanding. E.g., I didn't require that I see a shipping invoice before making that last payment.
I'm not sure exactly what the lesson is, here. Be less trusting, I guess. Demand more verification.
I've had many--and many more valuable--transactions through this wonderful community. Now I'll think twice. What a shame.