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JCalkin wrote: Forgive my ignorance, but does this actually happen? If one of my students wants to take a lesson with another musician, I say more power to 'em! IMO, getting different perspectives is VITAL to one's development. I don't know all there is to know about the tuba, much less music, nor do I pretend that every message I try to deliver to students is easily and correctly understood, interpreted and applied the first time.

I have been privileged to have studied with some FANTASTIC musicians, and I can't imagine a single one of them being so caught up in their own method to deny me the opportunity for growth outside the four walls of their studio.

Josh, a teacher in your own state has this policy. He has banned his students from studying with anyone else or from even speaking to other teachers without his permission. Not even about lessons, just conversation in general.

Talk about insecurity overload.
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JCalkin wrote:vc
Forgive my ignorance, but does this actually happen?
Once upon a time, there was a girl who wanted to study the flute. She identified THREE possible instructors. She then proceeded to set up meetings with all three to discuss the possibility of lessons.

One of the instructors nearly threw her out the door when it was made known that the potential student was actually considering studying with anyone other than him. He considered it a great personal insult.

Now, I'd like to say that the young girl walked away and had a wonderful life after studying with someone else.
Instead, student and instructor managed to patch over this little squabble and (eventually) all was well.

On the other hand, I can report the case of a trombone student who was perfectly happy taking private lessons, until his instructor said "I don't have anything more to teach you - you need to talk to XXX about taking lessons".

I'd like to think that there are more instructors of the second type than the first - but, sadly, this has not been my experience.
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ShoelessWes wrote:On the other hand, I can report the case of a trombone student who was perfectly happy taking private lessons, until his instructor said "I don't have anything more to teach you - you need to talk to XXX about taking lessons".
When I was in HS, my trombone teacher said the very same thing and off I went to take lessons from Mr. Kleinhammer in Chicago my senior year of HS - what a lucky person I was - I wish I had known then how lucky it really was.

Also, when I did go to college as an eager young musician ready to conquer the world of music I was very thankful I went to a full college (vs. conservatory) as I did change my major - Music to Math and just retired from a fun career in engineering AND am able to continue to play as much as I want to on trombone, bass trombone, euph or now Tuba (hence my first post here). Top tier player? Not on your life! Happy amateur who loves to practice and see improvement - you bet. There are many ways to enjoy performing in life w/o getting that seat in a major symphony.

I was thankful for the options offered by a full university once I got into college even though going in I "just knew" I would never change my major from music; after all as a HS student music was "my life."

However, life was(is) a journey - don't limit your choices.

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JimR wrote:
ShoelessWes wrote:On the other hand, I can report the case of a trombone student who was perfectly happy taking private lessons, until his instructor said "I don't have anything more to teach you - you need to talk to XXX about taking lessons".
When I was in HS, my trombone teacher said the very same thing and off I went to take lessons from Mr. Kleinhammer in Chicago my senior year of HS - what a lucky person I was - I wish I had known then how lucky it really was.

Also, when I did go to college as an eager young musician ready to conquer the world of music I was very thankful I went to a full college (vs. conservatory) as I did change my major - Music to Math and just retired from a fun career in engineering AND am able to continue to play as much as I want to on trombone, bass trombone, euph or now Tuba (hence my first post here). Top tier player? Not on your life! Happy amateur who loves to practice and see improvement - you bet. There are many ways to enjoy performing in life w/o getting that seat in a major symphony.

I was thankful for the options offered by a full university once I got into college even though going in I "just knew" I would never change my major from music; after all as a HS student music was "my life."

However, life was(is) a journey - don't limit your choices.

Jim

Hey now! That's not my quote! :lol:
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