Bob1062 wrote:I would very much like to forget this and put it behind us. Can we?
Bob: try. If I may butt in here, you're just tilting at shadows, even though there are a lot of good people trying to help you out. Listen to Ray, chill.
"World class sound" is much more of a running joke with the TNFJ® than an insult. And it is not pointed at you, rather your post made an opportunity to quote it once again.
It's good to have confidence in areas of one's playing, but rather than show-off, use that confidence to tell others how to reproduce what you've had success with; by the same token, LISTEN when the conversation moves to another area.
If I may also say, it seems that you often assume (incorrectly) that things are said about you, or are insulting you. What Ray said about about forums was not that you meant TubeNet, rather, it was another reference to the TNFJ®'s tendency in the past to imply that there IS only one correct approach, so it was a poke at the TNFJ®, if anything.
Ray's point, as was Miles Davis, was to "Say it with silence".
Instead of talking to your plants, if you yelled at them would they still grow, but only to be troubled and insecure?