bloke wrote:
bigotry and racism: It would be an enlightening exercise to find a "southern redneck" quote that - to you - seems to be ultimately offensive, and then compare it to the writings of A. Lincoln on the subject of race.
I never said that the confederate flag meant racism TO ME. Nor did I add the phrase "southern redneck" to anything I said. Through empirical observation, many of the people I associate with (me being from the north and having lived in all northern states: NJ, VT, NH, ID, IA, NE) confer that meaning upon the confederate flag, erroneously or not, as do (I suspect but cannot confirm) the northern folks who plaster the thing in their pickups' rear windows or decorative front license plates. I have tried to educate them all (the people I know, that is) but alas, I am only one man.
Incidentally, where are all the "Don't Tread on Me" rattlesnake flags, since we're talking about icons of revolution that pertain to this country?
bloke wrote:
southern slavery - an oft smoothed-over fact: Slaves in the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA were not freed until AFTER the end of the War Between the States and until AFTER A. Lincoln's death. (Cross-check the date of the ratification of the Thirteenth Amendment with the dates of Appomattox and of the Ford Theatre incident.)
Having read a considerable amount on Lincoln I do know that his main goal (very nearly his only goal) was to preserve the United States in the form it was in when he took office, and not lose half of his country's land, which would have been politically disastrous.
bloke wrote:
faggot: still means the same thing: "stick". It is an extremely stereotypical description of the body types of homosexual males...in much the same way that "gay" is a stereotypical description of homosexual males' outward behavior...
...I continue to fail to understand, then, why "faggot" (an appearance slur) is unacceptable whereas "gay" (a behavior slur) is acceptable.
It's not the words that are unacceptable, nor is it the images/icons/symbols/whatever. It is their meaning. When people say "gay", they are using terminology which to them means "homosexual" without being offensive. It is accepted as "safe" language because the people who use it (by and large) do not mean any insult by its usage. "Faggot", on the other hand, is used primarily as a derogatory insult by those who use it, it is interpreted that way by those who hear it, and the cycle is self-reinforcing.
Popular opinion and popular usage have to, to some extent, dictate the language we use on a day-to-day basis. It's the same principle that defines profane language.
I'm not personally offended by the Stars and Bars, unless I know it is being used to support a position of racism and bigotry, because in those particular cases, that is it's intent. It is possible that what it meant in 1860 and what it means in 2007 are different even on a generally culturally accepted level, leaving the intent of individuals out of the equation.
Some people might still want to wear a swastika as a good luck charm, but I doubt it'd make them very popular.