That's what you get for living in the Seattle area. During my visits to that area, I've noticed very little ability on the part of the natives to dress formally. I do not find it surprising that "grunge" originated there. I'm also envious.Mark wrote:The final straw was when a brass player, not tuba, showed up with no tie and wearing white socks (because that was all he could find).
I remember when our band in San Antonio went formal for the first time, using a performance for the Texas Bandmaster's Association as the motivation. We all bought tuxedos from Barry Manufacturing. The formal shirts came with plastic shirt studs that were only intended to make the shirt look like a formal shirt in the package. But surprisingly many of the musicians showed up with those black plastic ersatz shirt studs. In fact, I might have been one of them. The tux material was sheet plastic run through a mold to press in the pattern of weaving, or at least that's how it seemed in the steamy San Antonio heat. It was like wearing an insulated garbage bag.
I bought my current tux at Syms, and found one that is actually well-made (of breathable wool) for much less than the price of a good suit. But if you want quality accessories, they'll cost more than the tux.
Our rules specify black tie--code for a black dinner jacket (i.e., not tails) with a black bow tie. They don't specify the collar style, and I'm glad--I absolutely despise ascot (wing-collar) shirts. I also prefer a vest to a cummerbund.
On the subject of four-in-hand, when the wide end is held to keep an open loop through which the tail will be inserted in the last step, the shape of the tie being held resembles the numeral "4". That's why it's called "four in hand". I can tie those in my sleep, with one hand, while driving the car.
Rick "thinking Seattle has set the trend to (often excessively) casual dress" Denney





